Sextortion Help: What to Do Right Now

If someone is threatening to share intimate images of you or your child, this checklist puts the official advice from the FBI, NCMEC and the FTC in order: what to do first, where to report, how to get images removed, and what the law says in your state. It runs in your browser and nothing is stored.

In danger or thinking about hurting yourself? Call or text 988, or call 911. Steps checked against official sources on October 25, 2026.

This checklist runs in your browser. It does not send or save your answers or add them to the page address. There are no text boxes and no uploads.

Who is this happening to?
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What to do, in order

Choose who this is happening to above to see where to report and how to get images removed. The steps below apply to everyone.

Right now

  1. Step 1

    If you are in danger or thinking about hurting yourself, get help now

    Call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or chat at 988lifeline.org. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911.

    The Lifeline says it is available 24/7 and that conversations are free and confidential.

    Where this comes from
    • The 988 Lifeline is available 24/7/365. Your conversations are free and confidential. 988lifeline.org
  2. Step 2

    This is a crime, and it is not your fault

    NCMEC, the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, says the blackmailer is to blame, not you: what they are doing is a crime.

    The FBI tells young people targeted this way: “You are not the one who is breaking the law.” It tells adult victims not to be embarrassed or afraid to contact law enforcement.

    If you are under 18, the FBI says you can go to a trusted adult or contact NCMEC, whose 24-hour hotline is 1-800-843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST).

    Where this comes from
    • Remember, the blackmailer is to blame, not you. Even if you made a choice you regret, what they are doing is a crime. missingkids.org
    • You are not the one who is breaking the law. fbi.gov
    • Stop all interaction with the extortionist and do not be embarrassed or afraid to contact law enforcement. ic3.gov
    • If you’re not feeling ready to speak to the FBI, go to another trusted adult. You can also contact the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. fbi.gov
    • 24-Hour Hotline 1-800-843-5678 missingkids.org
  3. Step 3

    Stop responding

    The FTC’s advice is to cut off all contact: block the person, ignore their messages and stop communicating with them in any way.

    Where this comes from
    • Block the person. Ignore their messages. Stop communicating with them in any way. consumer.ftc.gov
  4. Step 4

    Do not pay and do not send anything more

    The FTC says not to pay, not to send any images, and not to give the person access to your accounts or devices.

    Paying does not buy safety. NCMEC says cooperating or paying rarely stops the blackmail, and an FBI warning says complying does not guarantee the content will not be shared.

    In financial sextortion of young people, the FBI says the offender often releases the material whether or not they are paid.

    Where this comes from
    • Don’t pay them. Don’t give them access to your financial accounts. Don’t send them any images. Don’t give them access to your devices. consumer.ftc.gov
    • Get help before deciding whether to pay money or otherwise comply with the blackmailer. Cooperating or paying rarely stops the blackmail. missingkids.org
    • Do not provide any unknown or unfamiliar individuals with money or other items of value. Complying with malicious actors does not guarantee your sensitive photos or content will not be shared. ic3.gov
    • the offender often releases the victim’s sexually explicit material regardless of whether or not they receive payment fbi.gov
  5. Step 5

    Block the account, but do not delete the messages

    NCMEC says to block the person but not to delete your profile or messages, because they can help stop the blackmailer.

    The FBI asks victims to keep the details: usernames, email addresses, the names of the sites or apps used, and other information about what happened. Screenshots of the threatening messages (not of any image) and of the account’s profile page are a simple way to keep them.

    Do not screenshot, save, download or forward the images themselves. NCMEC tells people not to send, share or download an image to use its removal service.

    Where this comes from
    • BLOCK the suspect but DO NOT DELETE your profile or messages because that can be helpful in stopping the blackmailer. missingkids.org
    • retain all information regarding the incident (e.g., usernames, email addresses, websites or names of platforms used for communication, photos, videos, etc.) and immediately report it to: ic3.gov
    • Please do NOT send, share, or download any image or video in order to submit to Take It Down. takeitdown.ncmec.org

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